Being too helpful

I'm a helpful person. Sometimes too helpful. I've only admitted to this recently. I'm a way it's self care if you like me seeing that I put others before myself. There are lots of times when this is good, but when it means I'm putting others before everything else and it effecting my work, my…

Adulting

I don't know about you but when I was younger I would look forward to when I was that bit older so I could stay up later and do more stuff or something. Now I'm old enough to pick my bed time, delicate job and I'm in charge! *insert scared face here* I thought as…

Going to the cinema

If like me you love going to the cinema then you are probably very considerate. You eat before going, you make sure you've gone to the bathroom. No noisy snacks. Phone off or on silent. And you try your best not to breath too loud.   So I don't get it when people go to…

It’s not always a bad day

Funny isn't it how one thing can make your day and one thing can ruin your day. Something someone says or does, or doesn't say or do. Funny. You can be having a great day then bam. Need you to do this thing your already doing. Or have you put the washing away? Or the…

House proud and hinching

I am probably not the first to talk about Mrs Hinch. Well I know I'm not, but still. Before Mrs hinch Insta craze, I was house proud, not saying I'm not any more, but I was a bit mad on house work, having everything clean and put away. Now I feel like I have to…

I can’t do mornings without coffee

When I was younger I didn't understand why my mum would have to have her first cigarette of the day before dealing with me and my brother. Getting us up and dressed, fed, teeth brushed and out the door with time to spare. As an adult I now do. Coffee. At 6am I need coffee.…

My motivation

My motivation to become driven is to live comfortably and wake up in the morning happy in the knowledge that I love my job and I am happy and safe both physically and financially. I guess this is everyone's dream, motivation in life. To be comfortable and safe. It's not always easy getting there though…

MIA

I gave up on my blog. If you didn't notice. I thought no one was reading, I thought no one wanted to read it. I got bored and uninspired to write. Lots had happened since I last wrote, our home is now 90% done. More or less, I'm stumbling around even more so trying to…

Be the good in the world

You hear it all the time, mind over matter or its about your mindset to the problem and how you respond to it, not the problem itself. There was a time in my life that I wanted to believe that but couldn't. Yet as I have grown older and transitioned into adulthood, I can't agree…

Being a social butterfly

Since starting the project of our house, I've come to the understanding that socialising won't be on the top of the to do list and yet we have gotten to a point where I am not needed to help. One because I know nothing about plumbing and electrics and all I am really good for…